Disclaimer: As a Mind & Media book reviewer, I received a complimentary copy of the book from Crossway Books, and have received no further compensation for writing this review.
I received "Hedges: Loving Your Marriage Enough To Protect It" by Jerry B. Jenkins, a few weeks ago, while I was very, very busy with work, and I was unable to get to it until this week. What a refreshing surprise it was too. The subtitle peaked my interest, and it didn't take long to find out why. My wife and I have a very strong marriage, and I never thought for a moment that anything I read in the book would apply to me.
How was I to know about all the little things to watch for, and to concentrate on? While the book is written toward husbands, I feel it would do any person, male or female, a world of good to read it.
Mr. Jenkins style of writing makes you feel comfortable. Instead of preaching to you when you encounter areas of the book that may apply to your situation, he makes you feel as though he is a longtime friend, helping you find your way. He points out many examples (that I am sure a lot of us have found ourselves in) and many common situations that lead to infidelity. Of course, he also points out methods to make sure you never find yourself in those situations as well.
The study guide at the end of the book and the accompanying dvd prove to be invaluable in applying the lessons of the book to your own marriage. I think every married couple should be required to read this book and watch the dvd. Seriously. If people open their hearts and minds and apply these lessons early in their marriage, they will never have to worry about such serious problems in their marriage years later.
My favorite paragraph of the book comes in the study guide for chapter 11, "Memories".
Somehow, some way we need to ensure that we continue along the path of remaining true to our spouses. That means working on our weaknesses, shoring up our strengths, pouring our lives into each other. It's an effort, but it's also a privilege.
This chapter was especially personal because my wife and I often recall how we met, the places we have been, special events in our marriage, and most importantly, the words we have said to each other along the way.
I found, after picking the book up, that I finished it much quicker than I originally thought I would. It was a terrific read and I am thankful for the opportunity to review it. Go pick up a copy of "Hedges" today, you'll be very glad you did.
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Very nice review! I felt the Very nice review! I felt the same way, but as a woman, I really loved the insight into the world of Man. I think it would be a great read for non-Christians too. Thinking back to before I was saved, I can recall times I thought it was no big deal to flirt with a married man :shock:… he was married after all, what was the harm. I see a lot of that still in co-workers and friends. It would do them good to see the harm they're really doing when they think it's just harmless fun.
Comment by Natalie on Dec 3rd, 2006 @ 02:06
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